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Breaking all the vetoes, a girl and a boy can be friends

by Deeksha Kumar, Monday, July 02, 2018

As the famous dialogue from the movie Maine Pyaar Kiya says that ‘ek ladka or ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ho skte’, it is such a commonly used statement in India making it a taboo for a girl and a boy to be friends with each other. How can a girl and a boy living together not in a relationship, right? Ever wondered why do they have to be in a relationship to live together?

Ek ladka or ek ladki dost ho sakte hain

The bond between a male and a female is stronger than that between the same genders. A girl might someday develop the feeling of jealousy from her best friend, but a male best friend would never do that. A girl can share a flat with two boys not indulging in a sexual affair with them, yes they can. There are relationships beyond friendship, marriage and sex between opposite genders and that’s ‘Friendship’. A gender unbiased friendship where you know that no matter how much you get on each other’s nerves, the other person will always be your support system.

If you are living with your male friends, you too must have heard these amazingly illogical dialogues from all the auntis and uncles who end you saying ‘sannu ki?’ after forcing you to give a second thought on your decision. And as a matter of fact, those auntis and uncles don’t know where their own kids are f**king around. Sad but true!

Okay! Here comes the most famous one- Parents ko pata hai? Jhuth bola hoga na wrna allow hi nahi krte.

Another one- Is your boyfriend okay with this?

No no, he is not okay with it but he is still dating me. Wow understanding boy!

This is not it- Sex to karte hi honge na ap log? Vo hi friends with benefits, fwb!

Woah aunti who told you about FWB, heard it from your kids? Oh! They must have been indulged in one. We have people outside the flat to have sex, we don’t have to spoil our friendship for that.

Last but not the least- where do you hang your lingerie?

Now, this is something really serious to worry about, Lingerie. This is something worn by only a few and wearing lingerie is just not acceptable in the society, isn’t it? I am sure my male flatmates won’t be jealous of my lingerie because it is sexier.

So to all the auntis and uncles trying to make me feel guilty for living with boys, ‘My life is my life, none of your life’. Stay tuned for more Relationship updates.


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